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fuzzis
05-22-2008, 09:50 AM
Abuse me, abuse my pet (http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/05/22/domestic_animal_abuse/index.html)

... It's a phenomenon that at first seems surprising, but on second thought makes perfect sense: According to the article, researchers are beginning to understand that "with devastating frequency, animals are the collateral victims of domestic violence." Abusers "torture or kill [dogs and cats, lizards and rabbits, horses and other farm animals], or threaten to do so, in order to maintain control of their spouses." Even more upsetting? It works.

As Phil Arkow, head of the human-animal bond programs at the American Humane Association, is quoted as saying, "Pets have become pawns in the battle of power and control that marks domestic violence ... [The abused] not only lose the sense of safety and comfort their animals provide but all too frequently feel unable to leave."

Randall Lockwood, ASPCA senior vice president for anti-cruelty initiatives, reports that he has heard accounts "from victim advocates in all fifty states of a husband or boyfriend who assembles the family and makes them watch as he bludgeons or beats the family dog, cat, horse, cow, bunny, hamster, gerbil -- with the message of, 'You could be next.'" The first published study on the subject, which involved 38 women at a domestic violence shelter, found that 71 percent of the women who owned pets said that their partners had "threatened, tortured -- even killed -- one or more of their animals during the relationship." Subsequent studies have confirmed that, unfortunately, it's a trend....

Before my friend Desi divorced her first husband, he took her and their daughter (a year and a half at the time) out into the hills behind their house and used an AR-15 to annihilate their two dogs. Didn't say a word to her, just methodically shot the dogs. She stayed with him for three years after that. Too scared to leave him.

fear_imbeciles
05-22-2008, 09:52 AM
Okay, I can't read that. :|

JMC
05-22-2008, 10:06 AM
those types of folks are just sick. No other way to describe it.

hendrixfreak70
05-22-2008, 10:09 AM
Abuse me, abuse my pet (http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/05/22/domestic_animal_abuse/index.html)



Before my friend Desi divorced her first husband, he took her and their daughter (a year and a half at the time) out into the hills behind their house and used an AR-15 to annihilate their two dogs. Didn't say a word to her, just methodically shot the dogs. She stayed with him for three years after that. Too scared to leave him.

That sort of crap would not fly with me. If I knew this dude, I would have broke his face. To subject a woman and a child to that is unspeakable. If I ever had a friend to do that, I promise they would suffer immensely. That makes me very unhappy.

OTM
05-22-2008, 10:17 AM
People that abuse women and pets are one of my pet peeves. I shudder to think what I would do to someone if they abused someone I love or my dog. I'm afraid my career would be in jeopardy.

jkspatty
05-22-2008, 10:20 AM
And this would be the point that I would purchase a gun and blow a mfers brains out, and feel no remorse whatsoever. The sad part is the animal cruelty laws are so lenient in most places that this does the most damage without actually getting the sicko in too much trouble. The cruelty of men is really astounding sometimes.

citygirl
05-22-2008, 10:21 AM
That right there just hurts my heart.

Hermione
05-22-2008, 10:36 AM
Attitude towards animals, children, and family members is one of the first things I look at when I meet a man.

brianinms
05-22-2008, 03:34 PM
Fuzzis you sure read some messed up stuff. It's almost like you seek it out.

birthdaybunnie
05-22-2008, 04:55 PM
He has no heart or soul to do something that cruel and vicious. He needs to burn in slow melt in hell for that one.

marion
05-22-2008, 11:20 PM
Attitude towards animals, children, and family members is one of the first things I look at when I meet a man.

Me too, except I have to give it awhile. They're always nice and sweet to everyone at first.

Anyhow, I never thought about it but this is so true. Anyone who touches my cat is going to pay somehow or another if I ever find out about it.

I agree there should be tougher legislation on this, although we need tougher domestic violence legislation period, not just for animals.

XC9
05-23-2008, 04:43 PM
That is just why a father should always teach his daughter self defense by means of weapons training. I would have blown that flockers head off so quick he wouldn't have known what hit him. You do not mess with my pets or family!